We all have meltdowns over the course of a lifetime that are infinitely regrettable, and we'd like to take back because the object of scorn was thoroughly undeserving and just at the receiving end of meshuggos that has everything to do with us and nothing to do with them. That's how we're trained to see it, and that's obviously how we should be trained. That's well over 90% of them.
But then there are the moments, 1 or 3 out of 50 (and yes, for some of us it's sadly 'by the fifty') when it really is not you, it's them, and it's just as difficult to admit to ourselves that sometimes people really do deserve to be at the receiving end of scorn.
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